• Fleppensteyn@feddit.nl
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    2 days ago

    Once, our classroom (early teens) had to get changed in a large, shared changing area for a swimming pool. One of those clingy volunteering mothers walked around, pointing out where we didn’t dry wel enough, touching, “helping” boys etc. But, she had two boys of her own and “there was nothing she hadn’t seen before”. Very uncomfortable.

    Somehow I don’t think it would be accepted for me to walk into little girls changing saying “don’t worry, it’s nothing I haven’t seen before”.

    Same for those cleaning ladies cleaning right behind me while taking a piss in a urinal. It feels weird.

    Oh well, we’re just men, right? So who cares?