Great, now I’m in trouble and I have to worry about her falling off the ladder. (TikTok screencap)
Imagine an adult wanting something done and just going to do it themselves 🙄
I know right? Like how dare a wife ask her life partner for help with something in their shared home?
It’s never about the thing that needs to get done.
It was, till it was put off and ignored so many times that it became about that instead.
Anyone willing and capable of doing it themselves wasn’t asking for help because they needed the help, they wanted the help, so the ask is less about the help and far more about the helping, if that makes sense.
i mean… i guess it will get done the right way now. :D
i dont know what the fuck im doing and will lrobably screw it up; i figure my wife has a better chance at success for most things.
Sounds like weaponized incompetence to be honest.
I’m a millennial woman with male gen X and boomer direct reports at work. This is their strategy for literally everything. “But youuuuu do it so much beeeeeeeter…!!! (Whaaa, whaaa, work is haaaaaard…)”
My strategy is scheduling mandatory training meetings early Saturday morning for anything that can’t be done because “Don’t know how… 🥺”.