Thales@sh.itjust.works to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agoWife: I'll just do it myselfsh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square8linkfedilinkarrow-up13file-text
arrow-up13imageWife: I'll just do it myselfsh.itjust.worksThales@sh.itjust.works to memes@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square8linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squareBaggins [he/him]@lemmy.calinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·1 month agoImagine an adult wanting something done and just going to do it themselves 🙄
minus-squareCouldBeBetter@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 month agoI know right? Like how dare a wife ask her life partner for help with something in their shared home?
minus-square_stranger_@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·1 month agoIt’s never about the thing that needs to get done.
minus-squareᓚᘏᗢ@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·1 month agoIt was, till it was put off and ignored so many times that it became about that instead.
minus-square_stranger_@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·edit-21 month agoAnyone willing and capable of doing it themselves wasn’t asking for help because they needed the help, they wanted the help, so the ask is less about the help and far more about the helping, if that makes sense.
Imagine an adult wanting something done and just going to do it themselves 🙄
I know right? Like how dare a wife ask her life partner for help with something in their shared home?
It’s never about the thing that needs to get done.
It was, till it was put off and ignored so many times that it became about that instead.
Anyone willing and capable of doing it themselves wasn’t asking for help because they needed the help, they wanted the help, so the ask is less about the help and far more about the helping, if that makes sense.