I had a girlfriend who was really car braines and i didn my best to avoid the topic. One day she told me that she was out to drink and she then she drove home, because she couldn’t just let her car there. She did not understand that she did anything wrong, because leaving the car was off the table. I told her that she could’ve killed someone, which didn’t got any reaction out of her. She said that she could’ve also died. And i told her that i wouldn’t really care, and if she has a drunk driving accident, i wouldn’t feel bad and she shouldn’t call me ever.