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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•If you found someone attractive, would you date them if you found out they were trans?
1·2 months agoStrap-ons don’t really do it for me. As far as post-op, I am not really up to speed on how advanced these are, and how well they replicate a “homegrown” set. Full disclosure, I’m Aroallo, so my physical tastes take a much higher priority than emotional attachment and commitment. I would be a way better platonic friend than a “girlfriend.”
Provided that the operations are perfectly done, my only hangup might be some remnants of my heteromisogynist upbringing. Do I want to feel like an alluring feminine mystery to someone who was never socialized with the “girlhood” experience, rather than “been there, hated it?” Maybe, and ironically I think that’s more shallow of me than the genital compatibility.
That’s a pity about Buck Angel. Haven’t heard of him before. Idk if it’s a self loathing mental health lashing out against your group thing (which I emphasize with, despite the clear harm) or a “pulling the ladder behind you” a la Blair White thing.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•If you found someone attractive, would you date them if you found out they were trans?
2·2 months agoIf I’m having sex with someone, and I’m very allo so that’s my assumption going into dating, genital configuration is important to me. I like cock on masc-presenting folks, so chances are cis men are exclusively where I’ll be wanting to date. If I were a little more bi/pan/ace, my answer would likely be different.

I am a freak who would die happy if this OS somehow made it onto my Unihertz Jellystar