Yeah… no. Everyone else is just as thinking and conscious as you are. I promise. You sound like Elon Musk talking about “npcs”. They may not think about all the same things as you, in all the same ways as you, but they are full humans with the same agency as you. We can’t go around dehumanizing people.

Shes just like me fr fr

Sounds pretty disremovedble then

Words can be harmful even if you don’t mean them to be. If the slur doesnt apply to you, you should not be using it. If it does apply to you, there is a discussion to be had, but i still avoid using the slurs that apply to me in most cases because they rarely have a positive effect on the point or joke i am making.