ArborNode

I don’t find self hosting lemmy to use much of either.

Are you strictly self hosting with this device? If so there are whole operating systems that make this easy. TrueNAS Scale for example.

I would suggest broadening your search. Debian vs Ubuntu is not much of a difference in my opinion. Videos and just trying some can help you decide.

I love this software. I started self hosting it as a way to make grocery lists easier for my family.

So far I don’t have many recepies in it yet. We are planning to add a lot of regular meals to it to have a list to pick from easier.

I’m not quite sure what rules you mean to tighten up.