I can start. I spent a few days with friends. We didn’t do anything that special but it’s good to catch up and soak up some positivity from them.

  • Pommes_für_dein_Balg@feddit.org
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    3 months ago

    It hit me like a semi truck, cause shit went sideways out of nowhere within 2 weeks.
    But she’s moved out without a fuss, our finances are separate, and I kept the cats.
    Still kind of numb, but I also massively enjoy the quiet and relaxation right now.
    The marriage was exciting, but it was also a constant whirlwind.

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      3 months ago

      Thats wild, from married to moved out that fast. I’m sorry things turned out that way. I went through a shockingly similar experience last year, so I know how difficult that can be. Grief comes in waves and out of nowhere sometimes. Silver linings like kitties and quiet nights are the little things that can help a lot, I found.

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        3 months ago

        Thanks for your kind words.
        Yeah, I’m sure the grief will still come.
        And it’ll be hard to achieve my dream of becoming a father now, as a 41 year old single…