Just looked that up. Narcissistic-Vulnerable or maybe Borderline personality disorder seems kind of suspicious to me, but I’m no doctor that can tell them apart easily haha. Also there is a 0% chance they would ever talk to a psychiatrist about it lol. I’ll give that book a look too. I actually found the book “why does he do that” extremely helpful in my case for… various reasons. I love reading about psychology so I’ll probably enjoy the rec, thanks!