30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.

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    4 days ago

    This is a really interesting take.

    I (male, mid thirties) stopped working for money about 1.5 years ago. Been traveling, often living off-grid, outside a lot since then. Very low stress levels, computer use has gone from about 11h per day to 4h per week.

    I’ve noticed a significant drop in libido. I used to masturbate maybe once every two/three days on average. Now it’s 2-4 times per month. Thought it might be me getting older, never had the idea it could be stress-related.