close friends, colleagues, or even your own family itself. it is pretty hard to stay being “nice person” is like credit card, you are either being used or declined.

even life itself doesnt seem to favor me, lot of problems happening lately, life seems wont let me to have a peaceful boring life.

lucky you, lot of people has lifetime scars because of boiling water.

life itself is getting my way, i always encountered problems after problems, even this year i just lost 4 years of hardwork just because of small mistake. my money also stuck until next year and my mental health is not going better because of this.

Thinkpad for sure

thats pretty amazing mindset, and yes i totally agree with you especially i am getting older and i still not getting that peaceful boring life yet, life is just so cruel in many ways.

goodluck, hope you able to find way out

thats how cruel life is, but you are lucky enough to have friends to support you.

you have amazing hardwork for sure, thats why you can achieve happiness.

yeah that was really fortunate life, i wish my lowest point is only about exams.

how you ended up in that and do you able to stop taking it anymore?

its amazing that you are able to overcome your lowest point and everything goes better after a year.

Thanks for asking my situation, so

i am tired being “nice person” and ended up getting bullied, scammed, get rid off, lost lot of important things, and many more painful moments in my life.

i still struggle to overcome my lowest point until now, this is why i try to get feedback from somebody else. for now i have regular theraphy, training, and really tried my best not to turn “evil”

sometimes i can relate myself to joker from batman.

i understand that you want them to be indepedent, but at least once they no longer able to not then at least caretaker is option if you dont have time or energy to take care of them

i think orphan is better, at least you are free from abused or neglected and have freedom of choices

so its forced, i hope all the best for you

i am suprised you still motivated enough to keep health and fitness in check despite of how bad things going on right now

they are, but in unhealthy way.

i dont have credit card so its manageable but phone is absolute must, most car services apps and cashless payment use it

cost of living already tripled since 15 years ago, which makes sense why 5% salary increase wont be enough

i am not sure about china but even developed countries such as australia and singapore has their struggles now despite they are one of high income countries.

guess your dad regrets his rant now, everything is just business now.