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8 months agoTwo opinions can be held simultaneously.
Disliking bad parenting is valid because children don’t have the agency to affect or remedy it themselves, while not wanting or liking children as an adult is just a personnel & subjective opinion.
Good on ya for taking the plunge!
Did so myself about 12 years ago and I don’t regret it at all, even though it hasn’t always been easy. I think you’ll find that it’s a great way to filter out the kinds of people you wouldn’t want in your life anyway